Betty Martin is one of my heroes because she crafted a great idea. This great idea, built and expanded from the ideas of others whom she acknowledges, allows simple folk like me, to have remarkable degrees of freedom in the areas of sex and intimate connections.
If you would like to take a journey with Betty let me suggest you start with the first two videos below and then slowly, ever so slowly move through the others. I suggest you practice the 3-minute game. Just for fun.
The 3-minute game allows language to be introduced into what is often an over-serious and difficult area. With language comes the potential of play. Ad once we are in the world of play then we are not to be worried or concerned with ‘getting it right’ or feeling shamed or embarrassed if we ‘get it wrong’ because we are playing.
When children and playful adults play, they do not concern themselves with getting it right or wrong but with playing and enjoyment and having fun.
So I invite you to play.
Here is her first video about the game:
And here is the game being played.
Now this video is Betty showing processes for how our hands, your hands, can become extraordinarily sensitive so that when you touch another person you get you own personal pleasure from touch not only a satisfaction from pleasing another person.
And in this video she discusses the importance and science of developing sensitivity and pleasure from touch with your hands.
And if you are ready for the big dive into The Wheel of Consent please click here.
