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Endings and beginnings and the rocky road ahead
There will be a workshop in a few weeks that has been designed with a variety of outcomes for participants in mind. Given the time of year it is running, a time of year that is often referred to as the “silly season” in Australia, the focus will be one that participants can immediately capitalise on in their lives, the lives of their families, and communities. At this time of the year many people are asking, “what the heck just happened … January was just yesterday?” or “What
Peter Howie
Nov 14, 20254 min read


Loving Your Erotic Charge
There is a familiar pressure in sexual encounters to want or need to orgasm, ejaculate, or climax. Clearly, many people are distressed...
Peter Howie
Feb 13, 20253 min read


Talking about sex is hard … here’s why
Talking about sex is hard. What do I mean by this? I mean that talking about sex in a relationship is hard, talking in any real detail...
Peter Howie
Feb 13, 20256 min read


Taking time to stop and smell the roses
Taking time for simple pleasure is a well-recognised meme. For instance: ‘Stop and smell the roses’ or ‘Gather rosebuds while ye may’ or...
Peter Howie
Feb 13, 20253 min read


The Real Purpose of Foreplay
Sex is always about pleasure wanting it, seeking it, needing it, and enjoying it’ Nan Wise ‘Why Good Sex Matters” p.37 You probably...
Peter Howie
Feb 13, 20253 min read


Adult sex education: what they didn’t teach you at school and you can’t learn from porn
Adult sex education is just that: education for adults about sex. But, hang one, why would any adult want to learn about sex? Don’t they alr
Peter Howie
Feb 7, 20255 min read
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