Erotic Coach

Who else wants less Netflix, more sex?

You used to have great sex.

Sometimes you still do. Sometimes it is average. Sometimes it just happens on autopilot.

You may think the fun, boisterous kind of sex only happens at the beginning of a relationship. And it’s lost and gone forever… that you just have to get used to the comfort zone of being in love.

But that’s 100% untrue.

All it really takes is being prepared to get out of your comfort zone. 

You don’t have to spend hours on tantric exercises or chant naked in the woods. 

That’s where I come in …



Hi, I’m Doctor Peter, Your Erotic Coach

For over 20 years, I’ve been developing deep learning experiences for adults.

I’ve been a qualified group therapist and psychodrama director through the Australian and Aotearoa New Zealand Psychodrama Association since 1999.

I also have a PhD in how, as humans, we warm-up to new experiences and situations, and how this makes us learn best.

I have nearly 30 years of training, experience, and practice of working therapeutically with groups and individuals using creative methods such as psychodrama, drama, and interpersonal engagement.

All of this means that I have the practical experience and research to back up what (and how!) I teach ways to bring new, better sex into your life. 

When you work with me, you’ll be doing challenging, intimate and risky things, but in a safe, structured and private environment.


I came to do this work because I’ve been where you are...


Like any normal person (whatever the hell that is!) I didn’t put sex and intimacy in my diary. But I put everything else in: work, clients, meals, school, family taxi rides, kids football, swimming, martial arts, choir, drama, shopping, sleepovers, bike riding, pets.


Sex: forget about it.


And, like any normal person, I had no way to talk about sex. I was embarrassed to talk about it to my partner, my therapist, my friends, or anyone at all really. 


Everything about sex was difficult and seemed to be veiled in a secret code that everyone else knew except me.


So, you’re not alone.


I’ve been there and I found the way through - and so will you.


I’m here to help you bring more erotic sex into your life… because who doesn’t want less Netflix and more pleasure & sex in their life?


Here’s what’s possible for you…


"By encouraging me to pay attention to my breathing, Dr Peter has helped me to experience orgasmic pleasure throughout my entire body. And I’m developing my capacity to consistently direct and deepen these erotic experiences. Sexual pleasure is no longer random, but a regular part of my life." Sara

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